Choosing Your Commitment Ring

Sadly there are still allot of restrictions in terms of legal ceremonies that can be performed across the world and it is a continuing struggle. However with recent changes in legislature such as the legalisation of same-sex marriages legalised in the states of Vermont, Connecticut, Iowa, New Hampshire and Massachusetts in the US, there is hope that things might be looking up! Here in the United Kingdom 2005 saw the introduction of civil partnerships and there were 16,100 ceremonies performed within the first year.

A lot of same-sex couple are looking for something to be popping on that ring finger for the time being to signify their commitment to becoming married once the legislature has caught up… making a commitment ring the perfect option before opting for your wedding rings at a later date. Here at Harriet Kelsall Bespoke Jewellery we are happy to provide some options for same-sex partnerships with engagement rings and commitment rings for both heterosexual and homosexual couples as a perfect symbolic promise of commitment and fidelity to your partner.

This has promoted a new area of change and development in the jewellery industry and its designs. Today it is a case of ‘anything goes’ in terms of styles and traditions, so if your struggling for ideas just remember ‘the world is your oyster’ so there is no need to feel limited, keep it creative and you could wind up with a lovely engagement ring, pair of wedding rings or even commitment rings! There is such a vast array of options to choose from e.g. metal types, profiles, styles, metal finishes, engraving, gemstones, profiles etc. … there is certainly no need to wind up with something that isn’t one of a kind. Of course if your not quite sure about a deign with quite so much ‘free reign’ you could opt for one of the popular styles of rings such as Irish claddagh rings to symbolise that you belong to one another, Celtic knot rings for those of your with highland roots, the ever popular birth stone ring, or even a trilogy ring to represent a connection in your past present and future lives together. Allot of couples of course like to embrace the new changes by celebrating their relationship with a gay pride inspired commitment ring or engagement ring with engraved gender symbols or a fantastic rainbow display of gemstones!

The idea of male engagement rings is becoming a popular option for both homosexual and heterosexual partnerships… so if you are thinking about proposing, don’t rule this option out. It can be a fab option, especially if your partner likes a bit of bling! Don’t forget though commitment rings can be pretty blingy too! Although plain bands are considered fairly traditional you could also choose to incorporate a or possibly some gemstones into your chosen ring design. Don’t forget though, commitment rings and engagement rings aren’t your only option… today allot of couples exchange various items or jewellery during commitment ceremonies, so it really is up to you!

Where you decide to wear the rings is of course up to you…most couples wear these lovely rings on their wedding fingers, however there is a little bit of controversy around this and they tend to be worn fairly regularly wherever is comfortable… some couples even wear these rings on matching pinky fingers!