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A Girl's Guide to Proposing

Planning to propose? Read A Girl's Guide to proposing and gain a little insight into the world of perfect engagement rings

Harriet Kelsall Portrait

Ah, the romance of the proposal. The flowers, the music, the candlelight, the bended knee and then, at last, the climatic moment… they open a box to reveal a magnificent diamond engagement ring. The perfect, ring of your dreams, a beautiful everlasting symbol of your commitment to each other…

But…What if they get it wrong?! Let’s face it, there are some areas in life where our partners may need a little help. So here’s A Girl’s Guide To Proposing

Diamond Viewing

If ‘you’ve seen one jeweller, you’ve seen them all’ is how your boyfriend/partner approaches the subject of engagement rings, it may be that he just hadn’t seen something that is right for you. Or maybe you haven’t seen it either. Knowing what you want is one thing, but finding it, well that’s something else entirely.

The simple fact is that an engagement ring is more than just a beautiful piece of jewellery or a romantic gesture, it is the embodiment of the commitment between the two of you; symbolic and at the same time personal and intimate. Finding an engagement ring is easy, but finding the right engagement ring takes thought and care and detail. It is not simply a matter of throwing money at it. Couples who come to our studio for their engagement rings have one thing in common: whatever their backgrounds, whatever their budgets, it is the desire to buy or commission an engagement ring that is unique – as unique as they are to each other.

Some couples have very clear ideas of what they want and an engagement ring on our website has drawn them to the studio. You would be amazed at just how many times this happens and the ring turns out to be a perfect fit as if it really was ‘made for them’. However, if you do not find the engagement ring for you amongst our one off ready to wear designs, then an appointment with one of our designers might be the answer for you.

With the emphasis firmly on design and quality, working with Harriet you will have the opportunity to be involved in the creation of an engagement ring that captures your own style and personality. It may be that your fiancé has already come to us to find the perfect stone and has presented this to you when he proposed and that you are looking to have an engagement ring designed around this; you may have inherited a piece of jewellery from a loved one which you would like to incorporate into your engagement ring or perhaps your fiancé has already presented you with design sketches. Whatever brings you to us, designing your ring with your fiancé can be a very exciting and romantic process, each of you imparting ideas and your own styles into the design and this way your fiancé still feels very involved. Having a ring designed and handmade especially for you is his ultimate engagement gift to you. Following the development of the engagement ring through to the wonderful moment when you see the finished ring for the first time is something that you will always be able to remember and treasure.

There are many approaches to commissioning your engagement ring, but if at the end of the day you are secretly craving that ultimate big romantic gesture, the surprise ring, then slip our website address your fiancé’s way and leave him to us. Our team of mostly women will be able to advise him on stones and precious metals, and Harriet will be able to draw from him your tastes and style, whilst not scaring him with outrageous prices.

Of course you could just leave it to him and trust his judgement, or subtly drop A Girl’s Guide to Proposing in his inbox.